Portrait of Anna Reger

Anna Reger

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When I was 20, I made what seemed like an insane decision: I dropped out of university in Novosibirsk, Siberia, and moved to Berlin with nothing but determination and terrible German.

I learned the language the hard way – by showing up, working, connecting, and making plenty of mistakes along the way. Eventually, I got into a German university and spent the next decade building a career in EdTech, specializing in UX research and research operations.

Portrait of Anna Reger

Anna Reger

Author

About Author

When I was 20, I made what seemed like an insane decision: I dropped out of university in Novosibirsk, Siberia, and moved to Berlin with nothing but determination and terrible German.

I learned the language the hard way – by showing up, working, connecting, and making plenty of mistakes along the way. Eventually, I got into a German university and spent the next decade building a career in EdTech, specializing in UX research and research operations.

Not all cringe is bad.

Not all cringe is bad.
That was the main point of my Cringe-Free workshop this week.
We talked about the cringe you feel when you make yourself visible.

There are two kinds.

😬 Cringe #1: the protective one.
It shows up when you PRETEND.
When you perform. Or swing the other way and OVERSHARE.
That cringe is saving you from becoming the most obnoxious version of your personal brand.
Befriend it. LISTEN to it.

🫣 Cringe #2: the brave one.
It shows up when you're vulnerable.
When you share your true self, your opinions, your messy middle. When you become relatable.
That's the cool cringe.
Befriend it. Then ignore it.

The problem is both feel exactly the same.

So most of us end up doing… nothing. Because it ALL feels cringe.

But you can tell them apart.

I even built a matrix for it. A cringe-meter, if you will. 😅